Meeting someone from the internet: what do you tell your family?
In Surat this is still a thing. How honest are you about how you met?
Meet in daylight the first time. Everything else can follow.
Don't push through. Say it was nice, finish your coffee, go home.
If they can't do a short call first, that tells you something.
Book something with an end: a gallery that closes at six, a class that finishes.