Meeting someone from the internet: what do you tell your family?
In Bhavnagar this is still a thing. How honest are you about how you met?
Don't push through. Say it was nice, finish your coffee, go home.
Meet in daylight the first time. Everything else can follow.
Book something with an end: a gallery that closes at six, a class that finishes.
If they can't do a short call first, that tells you something.