Is it rude to ask to meet in a mall?
Public, air conditioned, and there's always a way out. But does it look lazy?
Two coffees, then decide. No dinners for a first meeting, you're stuck for two hours.
A mall is fine. Nobody has ever complained about air conditioning in October.
Anywhere with a window and no music. You'll thank yourself.
Book something with an end: a gallery that closes at six, a class that finishes.
I always do the video call. Five minutes tells you more than fifty messages.